Congratulations on being the outlier, Terry. You are literally what causes a bell curve. I'm glad there are guys like you. What did you want me to say here, exactly?
For every guy like you, there is a man who creates such horrific chaos that a woman has to fight legal battles, throw her hands up knowing he is purposefully hiding money while she watches him spend on a new family, girlfriend, whatever and she struggles to raise the children he fathered.
I KNOW there are exceptions on both ends of the spectrum.
Thanks for being a good guy.