I feel you, Sandy. I do. Sorry tht your son is upset, but remember that his emotional attachment need not be YOUR emotional attachment.

And remember that his emotional attachment to something like plastic cups with teeth marks is representative of something more.

You can choose to bring him on board with your cleaning efforts, or you can proceed without him, perhaps allowing him to keep one or two items at a time, showing him the great progress you are making and how great things look as you go.

Take PRIDE in that sparking drawer when it's finished. Really stand back and marvel at it. Enjoy what you've done.

Don't feel as though you have to climb Mt. Everest.

Maybe choose a number of objects per day - ten items per day leave the house? A manageable amount. Before long, you will see a marked improvement, I assure you. When you do, send me a photo and I'll cheer you on!