Sounds like you're still hurting from having been burned. And that really sucks. I feel your pain, believe me. I totally agree that people who cheat don't see the long-term repercussions (as I pointed out in the essay) and that every instance ends badly (as I pointed out in the essay). I'm sorry that someone was awful to you. I made sure to add a little levity to the harshness though, so lighten up...sis.